So I got very wet from the rain walking the dogs this morning, and as I am unable to change I’ve spent the day very damp. Now that I’m on my way home, I’m starting to dry off a little.

In case this wasn’t clear, once I’m dressed in the morning I generally cannot get changed until the evening. There have been occasions where I have been able to get changed throughout the day, but as I have gotten older and changing has become more difficult these instances have become few and far between.

This is somewhat of a personal choice I suppose. I could have another call in the middle of the day, but this would limit what I would be able to do with my day, and I don’t want to do that. Either way I wouldn’t just be able to call carers back when I needed it, so hanging around for them in the day just doesn’t make sense to me.

So my freedom comes at the price of my comfort, and on most days like today, once I’m wet I stay wet. But hey, at least it isn’t pee. That my friends is what we call an incontinence joke.

But now I’m cold, like to the bone cold if you know that feeling. I’m very glad my day is nearly over.

All this is to say, as I loose the energy needed to write this post. If you see someone with spilt food on there clothes, which yes I also did today. Or wet clothes. Or just something that can’t easily be fixed within five seconds, just stay quiet about it. They may be aware and may not be able to fix the problem themselves. You hilighting it only brings more shame. Additionally wait another 10 if its raining a lot when its time to walk the dogs.