Learning Routes.

Due to a lot of the world around me being massively inaccessible, I almost always learn specific routes when I travel in well known areas. This is something now do without thinking because I’m so used to doing it, and I often don’t realise I’ve done it until I route I take has to change for some reason.

I only have to do a regular route a few times before I find ways that are comfortable to me. These are ways that are often so specific, they include travelling on a specific side of the road. I’ve even missed shops that are on the other side of the road to the route I’m taking, because I’m so focused on the way I have learnt to go.

When I have to change a route it can actually be quite scary and sometimes disorienting. One reason for this can be because I don’t know the condition of the pavements I will be on, or where drop curbs are. Sometimes I have to just change curbs that are new to me, because I can’t always tell how big a drop is going to be when I’m on the pavement. And as I can’t always see exactly where my wheels are, sometimes I hit pot holes, that I was unaware of previously.

To put it simply, I have to pay a lot more attention and take more risks when I travel on routes that are unfamiliar to me, so I obviously don’t like to do this.

Now I am able to manage better than some, when changing routes, despite my difficulties. For some being able to follow specific routes that they have learnt is more important than it is for me.

The point of this post is to hopefully remind anyone reading it that sometimes people have learnt routes for specific reasons, and they can’t just change them. Some obstructions like road works are unavoidable, what I mean by that is they require the say of the council not individuals to prevent. But individual pavement obstructions, such as where you park your car, is a different story.

It is worth remembering that people can’t just change routes. They can’t always just cross over to the other side of the road, to pass the obstruction you create.

So have a little consideration for where you park or leave things on the pavement. Just remember you may be blocking a path that is someone’s only way of travelling somewhere independently.

I am aware that this post may be considered slightly ironic given my current situation which makes travel difficult. But as I’ve had to explain this recently to others, after sharing pavement obstructions by hedges and vehicles, I thought it was worth also going over here as well.

Today was a long day

It was a very long day today which being disabled made more difficult. Or to rephrase how I’m supposed to say things like this in society, societies inaccessible made things harder for me today.

Though I went on both trams and trains, the most complicated part of the travel was in a taxi. Taxis don’t are so inacessible.

I don’t really have the energy to explain more than this. I apologise.

How dangerous is to dangerous?

Image Description: This picture shows me in my electric wheelchair from the back on a bike lane. Next to a pavement with a patch of grass. Several vehicles have been blocked out with white pencil and pink love heart emojis.

So I had to deal with this situation yesterday. Due to a car blocking the only flat access off a crossing, resulted in me having to go on the bike lane of a very busy road.

Some of the instances of obstructions and Inaccessibility I have posted on this blog and elsewhere may not seem too bad, they may seem like minor problems. But they are all symptoms of the same behaviour, behaviour like this that can put me and others in real danger.

I just wish that people understood the direct consequences of there behaviour on others, I suppose that’s why I post.

But it gets tiring honestly. I just want to be able to go out and know I’d be safe.

It took a lot of skill to navigate a situation like this. Something I’ve been doing since I was a young child. But something I absolutely shouldn’t have the skills to do. But needs must.

Early in the week.

On Monday and Tuesday last week I wrote about wanting to talk about my experience of Inaccessibility on Monday. However, I then did not have the energy to write this post on Monday or Tuesday. I then in all honesty forgot to write about this due to a very busy week and a rubbish memory. But I’m going to give it a go now.

I had a doctor’s appointment on Monday which was at a different doctors than it usually is. In order to get to this doctors I had to go down a specific road that I had not been down before. This immediately put me on edge as I don’t know how accessible new roads are going to be.

Parked on this road at the corner were a van and a car meaning that I had to go on the road to pass. Meaning that I had to go on the road, over a bump in the road to ensure level access back onto the pavement. Returning up the road I was unable to see where this bump was to ensure my level access. So I ended up crossing the road about halfway down to get to the other side and back up the road.

This was all because of vehicles that parked on pavements without considering those who used the pavements.

Image Description: The picture shows a red vehicle parked next to a pole behind a crossing. Next to this vehicle is another vehicle slightly out of shot. The pavement which both these vehicles are parked on is covered by trees.

On a road I did not know at all this entire situation took me about 20 minutes to deal with after my appointment. Someone passing by was able to help me find a safer place to get off the pavement and on the other side.

I know this may not sound like a big problem especially if you’ve been waiting a week for me to upload this post. But it was very difficult for me to deal with at the time. As I was already nervous about having to go to a new doctors.

New places can be even more nerve-racking than the actual reason I need to go to the place.

Please remember that this may be something I disabled person has to consider when brand new places. This movie reason that they are nervous or do not want to attend an event, have nothing to do with you or the activity. It makes simply be that they’re in a place that they are not used to and this adds anxiety of the day.

My apologies again that this post took a week to write. The downside of having a busy week is that it can sometimes cost you what you wanted to achieve within it.

Small victories.

The other day I repeated the treacherous journey that I made a week ago, which are discussed in in several tiktoks and on the earlier posts in this blog. I was fine thankfully. But I did run into a repeat problem, something that was there last week and was still in my way yesterday morning.

A white van with orange images and white and black text blocking a pavement on a corner next to a pole.

I ran into this van.

The same van that had meant that I had to go into the middle of the road on a corner in the dark last week.

After posting this again to my Facebook group it was suggested that I contact the email address on the van and explain my access problems because of this van.

I did this and received a reply shortly after. To my surprise on the return home this van was no longer there and therefore I was able to take this corner on the pavement. Which is a much safer option I think you will agree.

I did not expect such a response or action when I raised concerns of this with with the Facebook group and then the company. I was very pleasantly surprised.

It felt nice to know that I was actually able to make a difference to my own accessibility and no doubt the accessibility of others.

Perhaps this blog, and my social media posts will become more then just raising awareness and a tool for catharsis. Maybe they, or I, can actually lead to some real change in the world.

Somewhere it seems some are listening to me, and you know what that makes it worth the hate.

Pay attention to where you park.

Pay attention to where you park.

When I arrived at my puppy training class today with my little girl there was no car blocking the pavement, there were however bins that I could get round.

However even I returned this car had parked near the bins, meaning I was no longer able to get around.

Technically this car didn’t block the pavement, however because of what was already already on the pavement where this car had parked made the pavement in passable and inacessible to me independently.

Though my sister was able to help me in this situation. Alone with the dog this would have been a lot more difficult if not impossible for me to deal with.