When you’re disabled, you have to be able to think not only about everything you currently need, but about everything you might need being left alone.
As I write this, I am sat at home hungry because I didn’t think about the fact that I would want food when earlier I wasn’t hungry. And because I am home alone, I’m not able to get food until the person I live with comes home. Therefore I’m just hungry, and essentially waiting for someone to come feed me.
If I had thought about it more, I would’ve had something to eat before they left or been left with something like crisps that I could eat on my own, but I didn’t. I just spoke to the person with her basically blamed me for not asking for something to eat before they left. But then I wasn’t hungry, and I wasn’t thinking. It’s hard to ask for things that you might need when you don’t need them. And the only person that suffers when I don’t do this, it’s me.
I don’t think anyone who isn’t disabled has to think like this. Sure there are sometimes when we all have to think and plan for the future, but when you disabled you have to do it nearly all the time. And that doesn’t make me any better at it just because it’s more important to me. You would think it would, but no.
I hate that even the basic things in life aren’t accessible to me if I haven’t thought ahead. And I hate that if I don’t think about this, I’m the only one that suffers for it.
I’m hungry.
Send food.