Disability and Sex

As someone who is both disabled and Asexual I struggled with my own secuality because of stereotypes like this that are forced on to the disabled community. I knew that they were harmful and therefore I didn’t want to live up with them. This involved a lot of convincing myself that I wasn’t Asexual when in fact the opposite was true.

Comic STRIP
A Day in the Life of a PWD (Person With a Disability)

A woman in a power wheelchair is talking with a doctor.
DOCTOR: Well…we don’t need to do a pregnancy test, obviously…

I’m stealing the words of others for today’s post, and my previous comments on it, I’m busy having fun. I will hopefully catch up with my writing plans soon.

Pride or caution

Image description: screenshot of a tweet by Alice Wong:

Instead of #DisabilityPrideMonth, how about #DisabilityPrecarityMonth where we organize and fight like hell?

Pride is complicated and flattens out a lot of the joy, love, and care that is intertwined with pain, systemic ableism, and trauma

Source: https://twitter.com/SFdirewolf/status/1675588957793550337?t=CjQQtgtlzktDKXAUhOdruQ&s=19

I really like this quote as I think it speaks well to the complex emotions and practicalities of what it means to be disabled in society today.

Pride, while it means well, can be difficult to feel when you live in a world that tells you you’re wrong is so many ways and so many times.

We deserve to recognise these feelings and the hardships of the world we are faced with. To feel our feelings, whatever they may be without any additional guilt.

Being Disabled And Asexual.

As someone who is both disabled and Asexual I struggled with my own secuality because of stereotypes like this that are forced onto the disabled community. I knew that they were harmful and therefore I didn’t want to live up with them. This involved a lot of convincing myself that I wasn’t Asexual when in fact the opposite was true.

Image Description:
Comic STRIP
A Day in the Life of a PWD (Person With a Disability)

A woman in a power wheelchair is talking with a doctor.
DOCTOR: Well…we don’t need to do a pregnancy test, obviously…

I may write a little more about this later. But just your reminder that disabled people can have sex and they can also not have sex, in reality their decision is none of your business.

SIDE NOTE: Today is the anniversary of when I came out to myself as Asexual after finding the label of Aegosexuality fit very well for me. Happy Anniversary to me!🩶🖤🤍💜

Disability Pride Month 2023. 🦿🧏‍♀️👨‍🦯🦮🛵👩‍🦼♿️🦽

Disability Pride Month is held across the month of July. While it is often not widely celebrated and some within the community have mixed feelings about it. I thought I would take this opportunity to share some things about Disability over the month. I’m going to predominantly be sharing information and insights that I personally relate to. But I will aim to include other information as well.

Below is a picture of the New and updated Disability Pride Flag.

This flag was updated from the original design with zigzaged lines and sharper colours to straighter lines and more muted colours in order to make it more accessible.

In order of appearance from top to bottom, the meaning behind the colours are as follows:

💚Green is for sensory disabilities
🩵Blue represents emotional and psychiatric disabilities
🤍White stands for non-visible and undiagnosed disabilities
💛Gold is for neurodiversity
❤️Red represents physical disabilities.

The stripes are displayed on a faded charcoal black background which commemorates and mourns disabled people who’ve died due to ableism, violence, negligence, suicide, rebellion, illness and eugenics.

The dark background also represents rage and protest against the mistreatment of the disabled community.

According to the creator’s statement, black is also a connection to the pirates’ Jolly Roger flag, a general symbol of rebellion.

Happy Pride x

Image Description: A photo of the updated Disability Pride Flag, which consists of thick lines of muted colours diagonally from left to right, across a black background. The colours appear in the order, Green, Blue, White, Yellow and Red.