Describe your ideal week.

I would love just to go to spa, to be somewhere warm with good food and lots of dogs. Somewhere I could be completely alone and independent, and at least right now, somewhere I wasn’t disabled.

This is what makes the question so hard for me to answer right now because not only is it reliant on lots of things being different than they currently are. It’s reliant on fundamentally not being me, at least right now.

This is how living with a disability works and disability pride works. it’s not linear. Pride is not linear.

Sometimes it’s really difficult to be happy with who I am and the life I have to lead. And that makes it very difficult to picture my ideal anything, when it all seems really far away from me.

I think my ideal week would just be me being happy, comfortable, not in pain and independent.