It is the norm that many of the places in society are inaccessible to me, that is the result of systemic ableism. Both societies view of disability when they build buildings and business owners view when they find places for their businesses. It’s just life for me, and many others, unfortunately.

As I rule I try not to go to inaccessible businesses. This is both because of the obvious reality that the businesses simply aren’t accessible to me, but also because I do not want to fund businesses that are inaccessible. I firmly believe that those with inaccessible businesses make the decision to have an inaccessible business. Whether intentionally or unintentionally, sometimes they just haven’t thought. But I still hold them responsible for that, hence why I try not to fund them.

But sometimes needs must.

And while it annoys me, I’ve spent so long looking and trying different dog groomers, for some reason they never stick. I can say the same about cleaners, but that’s a different story. I got tired of paying the extra money for a groomer with a van to come to my home once, then to be let down when I need them to come again. I care to much about my babies to let them suffer because of my disability, and this groomer is a very good distance from my home.

So the fact I can’t actually get in, seems like a very small problem, given they were also willing to work with me. While the fact I have to compromise and be served from the street irritates me. Sometimes you just need to do what you need to do to get the service you need.

She does look lovely, and it’s Immy’s turn on Monday, and all being well I will stick with them. I can make it work, it just really annoys me that I have to be the one to make it work. It’s always me compromising.

To business owners out there who may stumble across my post, make the right choices and use accessible premises. It’s the right thing to do.