If someone stops by briefly it’s not often me they see. They come and see the person I live with and I don’t expect them to even talk to me.

It takes so long for me to get out of the house and so many people are impatient for me to leave the house, it’s not worth me even trying when they are here quickly.

This means I’m often left out, simply because people don’t want to take the time to include me. If I know in advance I can be more prepared for them to come, but just turning up isn’t helpful if you actually want to see me and aren’t willing to take time.