This time I definitely am. But telling the truth about this just seems selfish so I won’t.

It hurts honestly, when those close to me do things without considering me, even when I say it’s okay. I feel like I’m being left out, and sometimes that just really gets to me.

I know that living my life as a disabled person there is always going to be things I can’t do, there is always going to be things that aren’t accessible to me. If there wasn’t I wouldn’t be disabled. And part of me really wants to tell people that if I can’t do something they shouldn’t be doing it. But I understand how completely selfish that is so of course I wouldn’t do it. Of course I wouldn’t say I don’t want you to do that because I can’t. Why would I do that? But the truth is I really don’t want you to do some things because I can’t do it.

It makes me angry and upset, and quiet. I’m not really sure what more to say about this situation. I’m sorry that I’ve not said more. But I think I’m still angry, whether at myself or them I’m honestly not sure. I want to say I’ll write more later, but if you’ve read this blog for a while you know I would probably forget.

I’m also not having a shower tonight, and if I’m honest the definite reason behind that is because I do not want to get more in there way. I do not want to take time away from them having fun by showing, because that honestly just doesn’t seem fair to me.