What do you complain about the most?

This question sounds like complaining is a bad thing, but I don’t agree. There’s nothing wrong with complaining, I think it’s good for the soul.

Complain about the weather.

Complain about the work you have to do.

Complain about music.

Complain about your pain.

As long as it doesn’t hurt anyone, you’re allowed to complain about things that need complaining about.

It can make you feel good.

It can release negative emotions.

I complain about being disabled fairly often. That seems to upset the people who for dome reason always want me to be happy.

Why do you always have to be happy?

You’re allowed to have a bad day, when you’re not disabled. But when you’re disabled, people often say you need to be more positive. Like everything they’re good days and bad days and that’s okay, that’s how you cope. Ignoring the bad days will just make them worse in the long run, when you can’t ignore them any more.

Letting the anger out with the little things, can make the big things easier to cope with.

Feel the bad things, just don’t hurt anyone.