So my sister has a friend staying and we were going to watch a film. But that would involve me staying in my chair after the carers come. It’s simply not something I feel physically capable of doing this evening, nor is it something I want to do.

While my sister has found a way around the problem, I won’t lie I still feel a little guilty about it. I feel like I’ve ruined the plans.

I know I haven’t, logically. But the guilt is real.