What does “having it all” mean to you? Is it attainable?

I feel like this is a question that could be solved by solving the worlds ableism. I think I could have it all by being totally accepted in the world. But I know this is a hard ask of such an inaccessible world. I can hope I suppose.

By this logic I can not be responsible for getting “getting it all”, can I? Whether this is attainable is not exactly up to me.