Some people might say that I’m bossy, sometimes I even feel it. But every time I ask someone to do something for me is actually a win. Not only because I get the help that I need, but it is proof that I found the strength and the courage to ask for the help that I need. This is something that I struggled with for years.

As someone who needs a lot of help in her day-to-day life I worried about the impacts needing that help often had on others. When the truth is without that help I’m stuck. The world is simply inacessible to me.

So this one’s a reminder to myself and a message to anyone else who needs to hear it.

You can ask for the help that you need. And you deserve the help. It’s okay to need the help. You are not a burden for needing the help. If it took a lot for you to ask for that help, whatever that help may be and how ever often you need it, I am proud of you.